Topic

Buying a home

Down payment, mortgage type, and share-of-income guardrails advisors publish for buying a primary residence.

The question “am I ready to buy a house” turns into three sub-questions most advisors answer explicitly: how much down, what kind of mortgage, and how large a housing payment relative to income. This page lines up each advisor’s public position on those.

What each advisor says

Advisor Stance Source
The Money Guy Show
Financial Order of Operations
The Money Guy Show’s 3/5/25 Rule for buying a primary residence: 3% down minimum on a first home (20% on subsequent homes), plan to hold at least 5–7 years, and keep total PITI at 25% of gross household income or less. A 30-year mortgage is acceptable but should be paid off by retirement.
Primary source
fetched 2026-07-13
Dave Ramsey
Baby Steps
Dave Ramsey’s rule is total housing payment (PITI + PMI + HOA) at 25% or less of monthly take-home pay (not gross — a stricter base than Money Guy’s gross-income cap). Prerequisites: completely debt-free, 3–6 months emergency fund in place, and 20% down (5–10% acceptable for first-time buyers). Mortgage type: 15-year fixed only — no 30-year, FHA, VA, USDA, or ARMs.
Primary source
fetched 2026-07-13
Ramit Sethi
Conscious Spending Plan
Ramit treats buying as a personal decision rather than a required milestone — “renting might be better than owning depending on circumstances.” When the numbers do work, he cites the 28/36 rule (28% of gross monthly income on housing, 36% on total debt) and 20% down conventional or 3.5% FHA, with a hard-eyed accounting of phantom costs (HOA, taxes, insurance, maintenance, utilities, closing costs of 2–5%).
Primary source
fetched 2026-07-13
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